52 Things I Enjoyed About 2024

It's my annual tradition of counting down my favorite things about the previous year. Feel free to go back and check out:

 

2020 - the first one I did was in response to the depressing Covid year and while many things aged poorly (the sports section is brutal in retrospect) it is still has a few gems..

2021 - looking back and this was a really good year

2022 - great year for trips and additions (Rio + sunroom) to our family / house.

2023 - Really great sports year with Duke, Miami University and games I attended. Also, I probably could have written more about our Spring Break trip.

Anyway, here is this year's list broken out into sections:

Trips

1) Yosemite - it took a lot of planning, but we had a great trip out to Yosemite this year. If you were curious about more I wrote an entire post about it. Below is a picture from our first hike.

2) Jumping in Lake Tahoe - one of the biggest highlights of the trip was jumping into the extremely cold Lake Tahoe with L & J. It was great seeing how fearless the girls were.

3) The Pacific Ocean - Andy Dufresne said that he wanted to live the rest of his life near the Pacific Ocean and at the moment where L & J saw it for the first time I could 100% understand his point. 

4) Jurassic World (and other rides) at Universal Studios - The best theme park experiences (at least for me) are ones with low expectations. We got tickets to Universal Studios because the kids like Harry Potter. That ended up being great, but my favorite ride was Jurassic World. We had seen Jurassic Park as a family a little bit before the trip and the ride really felt like taking you to the island. Not only was I pleasantly surprised, but I actually enjoyed my time at Universal Studios.

5) Mammoth Cave National Park - over Labor Day we went with my wife's brother's family to see Mammoth Cave National Park and had a great tour (Extended Historic Cave Tour) through a small part of the caves. It was the 9th National Park for L & J.

6) Lake day in Kentucky - on the same Mammoth Cave trip we spent our final day just enjoying the lake at our place. Normally we do a lot on trips (checking things off on lists....I know big shock) but this was awesome because it was just a relaxing day. 

7) Dolphin watching in Pensacola - for the greater Malphurs family we went on a 2 hour boat tour through Chase-N-Fins. The whole family went and our boat captain was very successful in finding dolphins and a rainbow!

8) Ice skating in Detroit - three wonderful things happened with ice skating in Detroit: 1) I didn't have to skate 2) the kids spent multiple hours skating 3) randomly I high-fived my kids (and other strangers) as they did laps. It was a really cool experience filled with Christmas spirit with a huge tree, ice rink (of course) and Christmas music playing.

Family

9) L & J playing softball - one of my absolute favorite memories from the year was watching my daughters play softball on the Bexley softball team. They played well (I'm more than little bit biased) and were able to compete as a team. 

10) L graduating from Montrose - in Bexley the elementary school goes through 5th grade and L fully completed that in the summer. She is now on to 6th grade and is doing well in middle school.

11) L in two plays - L tried out and got parts in both plays this year. She wasn't the main character, but it's still makes me extremely proud to see her out there on stage in front of an audience. 

12) J's day of fun with her best friend - for J's birthday I planned a "day of fun" with her best friend where we went and got donuts, went to the zoo, went swimming and enjoyed a nice dinner. Not to pat myself on the back too much, but I feel like this was one of the best birthday presents possible. 

13) Selling 5605 Warwick Drive - it's crazy how you switch from not wanting to sell your childhood home to really wanting to sell your childhood home. As a family we debated a long time about when it was time to sell and finally this last year my parents decided to make the move to a nice retirement community. At that point the next challenge wasn't making the decision, but actually selling the home. I won't rehash all of the issues, but this was far from an easy process. The good news is that it's sold and hopefully the home can be used for a new family.

14) Taking my nephew to see Miami University - my nephew is a senior high school and looking at colleges across the country. I suggested to him that we visit Miami University and thankfully we were able  to find a weekend that worked. We walked around campus, ate Bagel & Deli, took an official tour and after it was all over he decided to apply. I'm not sure where he ends up going, but I can rest easy knowing that I tried my best to get him to go to Miami.

15) Playing basketball with my 17 year old nephew - On the last night of my nephew's visit we went to the Columbus JCC and were lucky enough to get together a good pickup game with a bunch of high schoolers. My nephew absolutely dominated. He had multiple 3s, blocks, layups and great passes. Thankfully we're on the same team and I could be the Steve Kerr (hitting open shots) to his Scottie Pippen (or Michael Jordan if you prefer a more common comparasion). 

16) Camping - one of the things on my list that I've been meaning to do is to go camping with the girls. We started off one night camping in the backyard and then graduated to camping during a community camp night at Jeffery Mansion in Bexley. Both were great and when the weather warms up again I would like to do more camping in 2025.

17) Watching Penelope with L & J - as the girls have gotten older we have been able to transition some of the tv shows / movies we watch from kid based programming. Penelope was a good example. It is a show about a teenage girl who runs away from home and camps in a National Forrest. It was surprisingly really good and something I enjoyed watching with both of them. 

18) J's first communion - not only did she have her first communion, but she was one of the two kids picked to do a reading. She got up there and was extremely confident and clear in her reading. 

19) 42 Video - M turned 42 this year and in honor of her birthday the girls and I created a music video (I'm not sharing it here, but text me if you want to see) sung to the Taylor Swift song "22." I thought it was quite creative and a fun surprise. 

20) Andrew spending a week up in Ohio - it's a cliche, but time only moves in one direction and one thing I had wanted to do before my nephew got too old was to host him for a week. Thankfully we were able to work out the logistics and had a week filled with a church carnival, baseball game (did I mention I like minor league baseball) and a super fun (according to the kids) rock climbing camp. I loved hosting him and will look back fondly on that week. 

21) Turkey Bowl - in 2023 we had our first turkey bowl with only 3 participants....it was fun, but really just set the stage for a bigger and better turkey bowl this year. J and I convinced 3 more people to join us and we had an amazing 6 person game. Below you can see my oldest catching an over the shoulder td over my youngest daughter. Fun was had and there was only a little bit of blood. 

22) Andrew in Annie - My nephew got a huge part (Daddy Warbucks) in the St. Andrew's Middle School product of Annie and I flew down to see him. He did so incredibly well and I was so proud to see him act, dance and sing. This was definitely a top uncle moment. 

Sports

23) NC State over UNC at the ACC Tournament - one thing I've always wanted to do was go see the ACC Tournament. This seemed like the perfect year because 1) Duke was projected to be good 2) it was in an easily accessible location (Washington D.C.) 3) I could get tickets through K Academy 4) I convinced a friend to come join me. The tournament was unexpected in that Duke lost its first game against NC State and then only got more unexpected after that. The cherry on the top was going on a Saturday night to see NC State pull off a huge upset (10.5 point underdogs) over their big rival UNC. No sports outcome all year provided me so much joy. NC State fans looked so incredibly happy and as a big Duke (so anti-UNC) fan I was able to live vicariously through them.

24) DJ Burns - this deserves a separate section because DJ Burns had himself a moment in March. The NC State big man had a fine 5 year career that looked to be ending in the ACC tournament. And then Burns and NC State went on a 5 game winning streak to win the ACC title. And it was remarkable because Burns would back down helpless defenders every single day in D.C. The post up from Burns would be met with anticipation from the crowd as it inevitably led to points. DJ Burns went from a bit player who nobody would remember to a March Madness legend and I saw almost all of the run either in person (at the ACC tournament) or on TV (during the NCAA tournament). What an amazing stretch of games from the (very) big guy.

25) Duke over Houston - this was a disappointing year for Duke basketball. They were ranked very highly in the preseason (some places #1) but ended up going 0-2 against UNC, losing in the 1st round of the ACC tournament and having to settle for a 4 seed. That meant a path that went up against 1 seed (and 2nd overall on Kenpom) Houston in Dallas. Duke was an underdog and they hadn't won as a lower seeded team in the NCAA tournament since beating Glenn "Big Dog" Robinson and Purdue in 1994. It was a tough game with the key plays being made on offense by Kyle Filpowski and on defense by my K Academy coach Tyrese Proctor. It was one of the more enjoyable NCAA tournament wins I can remember. 

26) Caitlin Clark (and rushing the court) - The biggest sports event of the year for me was easily when the Iowa Hawkeyes came to OSU during the peak of the Caitlin Clark mania. I took L and her cousins and thought it was super weird that there was no line to get into the arena 10 minutes before tipoff. The reason? The entire arena was packed. We had to get seats in the absolute last row. Look below to see a stadium that was completely sold out. The energy in the building was higher than any other Buckeyes game (including when OSU beat 1 ranked Duke a couple years). OSU used that energy to pull off the upset and we (eventually since were in the last row) rushed the court in celebration. 

27) OSU over Purdue (and rushing the court) - J wasn't able to go to the Caitlan Clark game, but we got great seats to OSU play 2nd ranked Purdue. Expectations were pretty low, but OSU played the game of their season and upset Purdue. I had told J that if maybe she would also get the opportunity to rush the court. OSU won and we were some of the first people on the court. 

28) Game 7: Magic at Cavs (first NBA playoff game) - I went to my first NBA playoff game and not only that but a game 7. It was great taking my nephew to the game and cheering on the Cavs (and Donovan Mitchell in particular) to a win.

29) Pensacola Blue Wahoos game - one thing in life that is constant is that there is fun in minor league baseball. This year was no exception with some in the family choosing to go see a Pensacola Blue Wahoos game. Nothing remarkable happened, but it was great getting out to see a game and a very reasonable price. I could also have written about going to a Dayton Dragons game this year as well. 

30) Winning the JCC 35+ Basketball Title - this year I had the fortune to be placed on a really good team that was able to make a run (there are only 4 teams....so a run is 2 games) that won the title. We got a cheap plastic trophy, but you wouldn't know the limited stakes by watching how much we all cared about winning. 

31) OSU vs Nebraska with J - I was able to introduce J to tailgating (for that meant lemonade and chick-fil-a at 10am) and we watched a surprisingly close game between OSU and Nebraska. J's at the age where she can sit and enjoy an entire 3 hour football game. 

32) Packers defense on MNF against the Saints - for the 6th straight year I made the semifinals of my most important fantasy football league. For the previous 5 years I had lost that semifinal game...often in heartbreaking fashion. It looked like I was heading to my 6th straight loss when I was down 13 with my only hope being the Packers defense. In order to win I needed the Packers to do something that no other team had done all year....and shut out the Saints. They did that. I won. It was a Merry Christmas Eve Eve. (I ended up winning the title, which is something I have never done, so that was also amazing. It felt like the absolute peak though was the MNF performance by the Packers. Go Pack Go!) 

33) Position players pitching - one of the random joys of baseball is that when a team is down so much that they put in a position player to pitch. On the Friday before Labor Day we went to see the Reds play the Brewers. It was 8-0 in the 9th inning when the Reds brought out catcher Luke Maile to pitch. Here is the next sequence of batters: triple, double, double, single double, sac fly, home run, fly out. Maile gave up a cycle and gave up 6 runs while only getting two outs. And thankfully I was there for all of that because we wanted to stay to see the fireworks at the end of the game.

34) Seeing Messi and the Atlanta United soccer team at the Mercedes-Benz stadium - I never book my work trips based on sports schedules, but if it happens to line up with a game then I will definitely take advantage of it. One work trip coincided with Messi coming to Atlanta for a big soccer game (match?). My old manager had tickets and I was able to see a very exciting (and relatively high scoring) 2-2 tie between Atlanta and Miami. 

Entertainment

35) Kacey Musgraves - L and I really got into Kacey Musgraves (specifically the album Golden Hour) during early COVID and finally after 4 years we were able to see her perform live in Columbus. She was awesome....even if the show ended way too late (~11:30pm) for a school night. 

36) Up close to see Gavin DeGraw with M - Columbus has a free concert series and we were lucky to get tickets to see Colbie Cailat and Gavin DeGraw. There were great and what made it even better is that were able to get front and center for the Gavin DeGraw portion of the concert. Check out our view!

37) Selling Sexy - as someone who worked at Victoria's Secret, I was super curious to hear about the history of the company and Les Wexner. Unlike other media portrayals, I thought this one did a really good job of going over the history of VS. I would definitely recommend for anyone who worked at VS, but it is also a good read of anyone who just likes books about companies.

38) The Anxious Generation - not exactly an uplifting book, but with an 8 & 11 year old I was definitely enthralled with this very anti-phone book. I keep thinking about the main point that parents are way too concerned about safety in the physical world and not nearly as concerned as they should be about safety in the online world. For example if it is possible then you should feel comfortable with your kid walking home from school alone....and you should be very cautious about giving your kid an instagram account. 

39) Charlie Hustle - this book was a very easy listen as it went into the details of a great baseball player and complicated person in Pete Rose.

40) The Parrot and the Igloo - this was long book about climate change that is equal parts amazing and infuriating. There are people in this world that will do anything to make a buck and the sowing of doubt on this non-controversial issue is awful. Climate change was always going to be a very tough problem to solve (it's very long term, you need help from every country, it impacts the economy and people's way of life, etc) but the people who lied to the public deserve every bit of scorn. 

41) City Nerd - I wrote about City Nerd in last year's list and his channel is just as good as it was last year. If you are interested in urban planning, walkable communities, etc then I suggest you check him out. Some of my favorites this year were his videos on Atlanta, Phoenix and "All the ways car dependency is wrecking us." 

42) Kenny Chesney with M - I've now seen Kenny Chesney four times and he puts on a great show. M & I had great tickets (not as good as the last time when were in the sandbar) and Chesney does what he always does and played the hits.

43) Star Wars Hotel from Jenny Nicholson - one of the most unexpected things I enjoyed was a 4 hour youtube video about downfall of the Star Wars Hotel. I had never heard of Jenny Nicholson but she is amazing in combining research and passion. One would think a 4 hour video about a subject I only had a passing interest in wouldn't work but Nicholson was just that good. 

44) Cartoons Hate Her - At the end of the year I found and started subscribing to this independent writer who writes about parenting, culture and other observations. My favorite articles from her were "The Village Nobody Wants", "At 28 I taught myself to be likable" and "Let children be fancy again." She has a unique style that I really enjoy and I find myself looking forward to her opinion on other subjects. 

Misc

45) Bexley School Levy Passing - this election did not go well. I still haven't fully digested that (I started but never finished a blog post), so let's just focus on a couple good things. The first one is that Bexley School Levy passed, which means my kids and the community in general will keep investing in public education. The public education at Bexley is wonderful and it is something that differentiates Bexley from other areas. 

46) COTA Tax Levy - In an effort to improve public transit, the city of Columbus passed an increase to the sales tax in November. More bus routes, bike paths, trails and sidewalks will help continue to improve the city. 

47) Joe Biden stepping down and not running for President - independent on who you were voting for in the 2024 election I do not think it is controversial to write that 82 is way too old to be president. I was happy with Biden for making the correct decision to step down and not run again. I feel like there are a lot of people who get drunk on power and wouldn't make that move. 

48) Stock Market (+24% YTD) - the stock market has been on quite the run this year (+24%) or over the last 5 years (+81%) which is great news for anyone with a 401k or who personally invests. 

49) Moving to Finance at Carter's - In October of this year I found out my role was moving from my previous area to the finance team at Carter's. Not to get into specifics about the company or what I do, but this made a ton of sense and is something that I think sets myself up for a great 2025 at work. 

50) Selling my Civic - I decided that after 17 years of driving my Honda Civic, it was time to upgrade cars. I didn't think I would get much for my Civic due to the age and condition. Still I was a little disappointed when the Mazda dealership only offered me $500. Thankfully I spent the 30 minutes necessary to get another quote at CarMax and was beyond excited when they offered me $2500. It was definitely worth the time to get $2k extra dollars and is something I would advise anyone to do when selling a car.

51) Meeting Joe Posnanski in Dayton - one of my all time favorite writers talked about baseball for about an hour at the Jewish Community Center in Dayton, Ohio. I absolutely loved hearing him talk and then getting my picture with him after. (Also, the people I met at the JCC in Dayton were some of the nicest people around.) 

52) New Year's Resolution (52 meals) - as a remote employee I am often worried about my lack of social interaction, so my plan for this year was to have 52 meals (1 per week) with friends in 2024. I am proud to report that I finished the year with 62! I have an excel grid tracking this and I am so pleased with the results that I am going to have the same goal for 2025. Some fun stats from meals - 71% of the time the meal came from us (M or I) asking.....65% of the meals were out at a restaurant vs a home and 48% of the time we paid separately for the meal as opposed to either friend treating the other. 

Lake Tahoe, Yosemite & LA (2024)

What kind of vacationer are you? Or maybe a better question - how do you want to vacation with your family? I've written about different trips in this blog (including the most recent post about our Spring Break 2023 trip to Utah / Arizona) and it got me thinking both about vacation types in general and then the specifics of our latest trip. 

Growing up there seemed to be two kinds of Malphurs family trips. 1) We went to the beach on 30A and spent the week playing in the sand and watching movies. (We got two "free" movies per day from the place we rented from and in the era before streaming. This was almost as exciting as the Gulf of Mexico.) 2) We did long roadtrips to places like the Grand Canyon. I remember significantly more of the 1st kind of trip.....probably because the beach was relatively close (5-6 hour drive), didn't involve a plane and was more relaxing. 

Now I'm in the stage of life where we have a new family of four that is establishing their own traditions. When L & J were babies / toddlers, trips were less about having a relaxing trip and more about "parenting on location." (I'm stealing that line from a friend who mentioned that when we all went to Toronto.) We could have pockets of fun and the pictures looked great, but even with the benefits of nostalgia I still don't think I would want to do those trips again.

The kids are older and we are presented with a fork in the road. Do we want relaxing trips? Or do we want to "go and see stuff"? We don't have unlimited time or unlimited money, so a decision had to be made. For the last two years our big trip has been the go and see stuff. Without further ado here is my recap of Lake Tahoe, Yosemite & LA.

Wednesday, 7/17/24 - flight out

• No issues with our flights to Atlanta and then to Reno. We got in late, but everyone handled it well. We all slept well at M's Uncle's place that evening

Thursday, 7/18/24 - first day in Lake Tahoe!

• We were able to sleep in and have a pretty relaxing start to the day / trip. It was nice having a home at the front end of our trip, so that we could have both the physical comforts (a nice bed) and mental comforts (things feel different in a home than a hotel).

• We started the day going to the overrated (no matter what the rating is) tourist trap of Virginia City. I had a bad feeling driving into a town with tons of political signs (when did it become ok to have curse words on large signs?) and the situation never really improved. 

• Virginia City was an old mining town and now it's a small stretch on a road with bars, tourist shops, etc.

• The two best things about the city was a good milkshake and an ok (B+ / A-) tour of one of the old mines. We had about an hour tour of the Collar Mine and it's amazing people actually did this for a living back in the 19th century

• We left Virginia City and went to Lake Tahoe. My first thoughts on Lake Tahoe was its as gorgeous as you can imagine and that the water is so incredibly clear and cold. 

• Our big activity was to go see a Shakespeare play (The Merry Wives of Windsor). M & L loved it. J and I thought it was ok mostly because she is 8 and I apparently have the comprehension skills of an 8 year old. Regardless of our divergent thoughts on the quality of the play, we all agreed the setting was spectacular (see below). 

Friday, 7/19/24 - Lake Tahoe (on land and water)

• We started the day off kayaking and playing in Lake Tahoe from Sugar Pine Point State Park. We had planned on some hikes, but as expected the parking situation in the middle of summer was challenging. Thankfully the State Park was awesome.

• That afternoon we did get finally find parking at Emerald Bay State Park and did a hike down to the water and then back up. The views were spectacular and the crowds weren't too bad

• That evening we had our big 2 hour boat tour with Captain Sean through his company Imagine Charters. This was one of the highlights of the trip. M's Uncle and Aunt came and joined us

• We could see the sunset and then at the end L, J and I jumped into the fridgid Lake Tahoe. That was such a cool experience with both of them. I highly recommend a boat to explore Lake Tahoe.

Saturday, 7/20/24 - relaxing day in Nevada

• We didn't do as much this day....a small hike, a visit to the Nevada State Museum in Carson City and a nice dinner with M's Aunt and Uncle. 

• We were very fortunate to start our trip with a home base and it was great learning more about M's Aunt and Uncle.

Sunday, 7/21/24 - driving to Yosemite National Park

• This was one of the best days of the trip. We left Gardnerville and went to Yosemite National Park!

• The entire time I had been preparing the family for a long, long, long wait to get into Yosemite. My fears were unfounded as it took about 5 minutes to officially enter the park. For certain parks (like Yosemite) there is a reservation system and thankfully our lodging in the park allowed for us to go in. This was an extremely pleasant surprise.

• We entered Yosemite through the Tioga Pass (this is on the east side of the park). One big takeaway from Yosemite is that the park is absolutely massive and it's imperative that you plan your activities into sections of the park. We explored 3 sections: 1) the Tioga Pass section on the east side 2) the valley 3) Mariposa Grove on the south side. 

• We did a short hike around (but certainly not all the way up) Lembert Dome before walking down in  Tuolomne Meadow to Soda Springs. Soda Springs is carbonated ground water and kind of tastes like watered down blood. Despite the unpleasant taste this was a fun and weird surprise.

• Next stop was going to Tenaya Lake. M, L & J got into the water and I just enjoyed relaxing at this lake that was surrounded by granite mountains. 

• We then got our first view of Half Dome by taking a short hike on Olmsted Point. There is a very good view from the road, but an even better view with a little bit of walking. 

• We ended the day in the Yosemite Valley checking out Bridalveil Fall and our lodging (the Yosemite Valley Lodge)

• The best surprise of the day was the fact that Yosemite wasn't that crowded. That was my biggest fear visiting such popular tourist destinations during peak tourist season. There were definitely people there, but at no point did it feel overwhelming at all. Maybe it's because of the reservation system or because people can naturally spread out with Yosemite being so big, but I wouldn't hesitate to visit again in the summer.

• The one downside was finding out that our our lodge did not have A/C and that while it was nice and cool at the top of the mountain....it was pretty hot in the valley. The location of our lodge was perfect, but sleeping there was tricky and involved fans and wet towels.

• Below is pic from Tenaya Lake

Monday, 7/22/24 - first full day at Yosemite

• In the morning we had a bus tour to Glacier Point. It was nice not having to worry about driving, but I would have preferred more than the 45 minutes we had at Glacier Point. You can see all of the valley and next time I would want to drive there and have lunch overlooking everything. 

• When we got back to the valley we had the afternoon / evening mostly free to do whatever. L and I rented bikes, which based on the tour book I used was a great way of seeing everything in the valley. The book was correct. It was so easy riding around the path and stopping when we wanted to check something out.

• We also took advantage of the pool at the lodge. While the rooms themselves were small and spartan (did I mention the no A/C), the lodge itself was specular. Great restaurants (a nice place, a quick service place and even a Starbucks), a pool, ranger led programs and of course the incredible location. Anyway, the pool was huge and had a great view of Yosemite Falls. Also, on a hot day (high of 100 in the valley) the pool was perfect.

• That night we had a fancy dinner at The Ahwahnee hotel. There was a dress code (not really enforced), piano player and a buffett with a good selection for both vegetarians and everyone else.

• After a nice dinner we went to check out Yosemite Falls and while walking around the creek we saw a bear! Thankfully the bear and no interest in us and walked the other after we audibly gasped.

• Below is a view of Yosemite from Tunnel View:

Tuesday 7/23/24 - second full day at Yosemite

• This day was hotter and more crowded than what we had experienced so far at Yosemite. 

• We started off by going to the Vernal Falls trailhead, where we found out that part of the trail was closed unless you had gotten there before 6am. 

• We had a one mile hike from the parking lot to the trailhead and then a 0.8 mile hike up a mountain to the Vernal Fall Footbridge. People were sweaty and grumpy, but the situation improved when we saw the spectacular view from the footbridge. 

• We hung out there, rested our body and thought about the "good news" that the rest of the trail up the mountain wasn't open. (There was a 1.7 mile other way you could take....we weren't doing that.)

• Anyway the walk back was much, much easier (going downhill) and we passed the time with J giving high fives and words of encouragement to 25 strangers! 

• The rest of the day was at the pool and then a nice meal at the Yosemite Mountain Lodge in the same complex as our room.

• Below is a view from our walk around the valley after dinner - it was so peaceful and we had two deer walk right next to us.

Wednesday, 7/24/24 - Yosemite to Kings Canyon National Park

• Today we headed down from Yosemite to Kings Canyon! We passed Glacier Point and I lamented that I didn't plan it better so that we could have stopped there instead of taking the tour bus.

• We stopped in the Mariposa Grove section at the south end of Yosemite National Park to see the giant sequoia trees. This officially kicked off the "big trees" section of our trip. The trees were amazing to see and we took a hike around to see different sections. 

• We continued our drive (more driving than we wanted today) and were able to see two things at Kings Canyon National Park: 1) a short hike to the General Grant Tree, which is the 2nd biggest tree in the world. 2) another short hike to panoramic point to see the sunset over Kings Canyon (see below)

• We  didn't drive the Kings Canyon Scenic Byway. It looked awesome but after 4 hours of driving already it didn't seem appealing. Maybe next time

• We had a great meal at a Mexican restaurant just south of Yosemite. My travel book had recommended it and the advice was spot on. 

• The night of sleeping at John Muir Lodge was excellent - it was also not air-conditioned, but being at such high elevation it didn't matter. This was a welcome break from the "hot house" in Yosemite.

Thursday, 7/25/24 - Kings Canyon to Sequoia National Park to LA (Universal Studios)

• We left Kings Canyon and to see Sequoia National Park. There we were able to see the world's biggest tree (General Sherman's) and I can in fact confirm that it is very, very large.

• After that we walked 351 steps up Moro Rock to see an amazing view of the high Sierra Mountains

• Sequoia was great, but also super crowded. It seems like the crowds I expected at Yosemite all seemed to be at Sequoia. My guess is that because Sequoia hasn't instituted time entry it gets way more crowed. 

• After Sequoia we drove south past Bakersfield and into LA. We thankfully avoided most traffic (LA traffic gives me nightmares) and got to Universal Studios at 7pm.

• Universal Studios was awesome! We saw the sun set over Harry Potter World and did 3 rides + a wand fitting. Harry Potter isn't really my thing, but it was super awesome to see the excitement from the rest of my family

• We stayed at the park until it closed at 10, which made for a very long day (the longest day of the trip) but it was an awesome day. 

Friday, 7/26/24 - Universal Studio & worst / best meal of the trip

• Back to Universal Studios! They were running a Buy One Day, Get One Day Free offer, so we decided to check it out on our way into LA and then also the next day. 

• The biggest piece of advice is that you need to get there early in the morning. The lines were 10-30 minutes long at the beginning of the day, but by 11am they were 60 minutes or more. 

• We were able to get there early enough to go on 3 rides: Jurassic World / Transformers / The Mummy. They were all better than expected. I loved how the lines were designed to make the wait not only tolerable, but kind of fun. The rides themselves were relatively short, but very well done. I feel like for pure thrills it doesn't compare to Cedar Point, Universal was much better than both Cedar Point and Disney with storytelling.

• Lunch at Universal was the worst meal of the trip. Pure chaos. The online ordering didn't work and the wait / people touching me to get some average chicken fingers was just not something I ever want to do again.

• I also wasn't as impressed with the Harry Potter wands. There were supposed to do small magic tricks around the park, but only worked about 50% of the time. L thought they were really cool (which is great), but I would have been annoyed had we paid for the wands and weren't just borrowing them from friendss.

• I was super impressed with the different worlds. Both Harry Potter World & Super Mario Worlds are small, but extremely well done. Just an amazing spot to walk around get pictures in.

• The studio tour was relatively nice (again L really liked it) but M and I weren't as impressed. I think by hour 10 of being the park we were just done with the lines / crowds / theme park. 

• That being written, overall I loved Universal Studios....as a one time treat and nothing something I need to do again for  a few more years

• We went back to Santa Monica and had a late dinner at an Italian restaurant (Fritto Misto ) right next to our Airbnb. This was the best meal of the trip. We all got pasta and M and I shared a bottle of cheap wine. The waiter was great and the whole atmosphere was just perfect. If I lived in Santa Monica, I would want to eat there every week.

Saturday, 7/27/24 - beach day

• Last full day of the trip and after lots of driving around we decided to to just walk around and enjoy Santa Monica

• We got donuts from this shop (DK Diner) featured in the Donut King documentary we had just watched on Hulu. The donuts were creative and very good, but we all agreed that they weren't any better than our local donut shop Resch's Bakery.

• We spent 4 hours at the beach and the kids just really loved playing in the Pacific Ocean.

• Dinner was slightly disappointing. Our grand finale was at this fancy spot (Tar and Roses). The food quality was excellent, but the portion size was so small that we had to get pizza after. 

• We saw dolphins off the Santa Monica Pier! Look really close and maybe you can see them in the pic below:

Sunday, 7/28/28 - flight back

• Rough day travel....we boarded our flight from LA to Vegas on time, but just sat there on the plane until we had to go back to the terminal. Why? Some battery wasn't charged correctly. This took over an hour and meant we missed our connection to Columbus. Our flight scheduled to get in at 8:30pm now got in at 2am. 

• The good news is that I asked Southwest for compensation since it was their fault and they gave us $400 ($100 / each). Not bad for the delay.

Overall it was an amazing trip and one I would recommend to anyone who likes national parks and doesn't mind driving. It was very similar to our Spring Break trip last year to Utah / Arizona and at this point the perfect kind of trip for our family. 

Spring Break 2023

While this post might be 15 months delayed, I felt like it was finally time to give our Spring Break trip a proper write-up. It was briefly mentioned in my end of the year "52 things" list, but my hope is that I can look back on a more detailed itinerary with nostalgia. Without further ado...

Context

In 2020 our Spring Break trip to Europe was canceled due to COVID. We had planned a great trip to France / Switzerland to visit a friend and see the sights. COVID came to the United States at almost the exact same time as we were supposed to leave the US.  Anyway, our Spring Break sights were significantly more modest in 2021 & 2022 with trips with our close friends to a house in Gatlinburg, Tennessee. Gatlinburg has overly tourist appeal familiar to anyone who has been to Myrtle Beach, Branson or the Wisconsins Dells, but the two trips were fun / relaxing and thanks to being within driving distance....relatively cheap. In 2023 we wanted to plan something bigger and hopefully better and set our sights on Utah / Arizona. The main appeal were the national parks with Utah having the "mighty 5" which were relatively close to the Grand Canyon in northern Arizona. We booked our flights, bought the travel books and were on our way!

Trip

3/17 -  Travel Day

Our flight from Columbus had a 3 hour layover in Denver. I was able to watch 16th seeded Farleigh Dickinson upset 1st seeded Purdue in one of the bigger upsets in March Madness history. It was a strange feeling watching it in the Denver airport knowing that the upset was happening in Columbus in an arena 10 minutes from our house. Anyway, we made it to Salt Lake around midnight, took a take to our hotel and promptly went to sleep.

3/18 - Salt Lake City Day

We woke up in much better spirits than I expected considering how late we arrived and were ready for our big day in Salt Lake City. It started off with a lucky break as we went to our next hotel (The Grand America Hotel) and were allowed to check-in 7 hours before our check-in time. Our plan for the trip was to get one night in a relatively cheap hotel (the first night) and one night in a more expensive hotel....with the average cost being two nights in a moderate hotel. Not to pat myself on the back too much, but that worked to perfection because we just slept the first night and then we had 27 hours to enjoy the life of luxury in what my kids thought was a castle. And the hotel was just amazing from the rooms to the pool to the customer service. I generally don't think the marginal benefit of a nice hotel is worth the extra cost, but with this one I agree with some of my more well-off friends. 

After checking in we had a full day of the following:

• The Tracy Aviary - J's favorite of the trip. It was free (we have reciprocity through the Franklin Park Conservatory), not crowded and the birds were awesome to see. Also, randomly the food there was excellent.

• Walking around beautiful Salt Lake City -  it's just such a clean and nice city. The only disappointing part was Temple Square was under construction, so we couldn't see that. One fun thing is that L got 30,000 steps for the first time on her fitbit.

• Swimming in the hotel pool - we took advantage of this and very much enjoyed the pool

• High tea at The Grand America Hotel - the girls really enjoyed getting dressed up for a different experience than what we normally do. 

• Dinner at the Blue Iguana - excellent food in a cool spot within walking distance of the basketball arena. 

• Jazz vs Celtics - I've been a Jazz fan for 30 years and it was great to to take family to a very exciting game that ended with an upset Jazz win. L was super into the game, which was was really fun to see. It's weird to me though being a Jazz fan for so long, that this was only the 2nd Jazz home game in my life.

3/19 Salt Lake City to Arches

The day started off with an outstanding breakfast at Eva's Bakery in downtown Salt Lake City. I then took the city train (another bonus about SLC is the train) to the airport to get the car, while M took the kids to the hotel pool for the 3rd time.

Before we left SLC we checked out the Utah State Capital. The build was cool to see and it didn't hurt that it was free. And then it was off on the 4 hour trip to Moab! Lunch was at "Waffle Love" and this was a nice pleasant surprise since I thought fast food was our most likely option next to a Target.

We arrived at Arches National Park at 5pm, which gave us enough time for the tough hike up a mountain to Delicate Arch. The hike took about an hour but in the words of L was "definitely worth it." So many times big things like that are underwhelming. Decline Arch not only met, but vastly exceeded expectations. It was huge and the entire surrounding area was gorgeous. You could see the arch, the rest of the national park and snow capped mountains in the background (See below). 

And one super nice thing (and a theme of the trip) was that while there were people there it wasn't too crowded. It was awesome to hear the excitement in L's voice when we saw the Delicate Arch. Really cool experience as a dad. 

The walk back was much easier since it was down a mountain. We got back in our car hungry for dinner. We stopped at Moab Brewery and the food was ok. After that we checking into our Airbnb about 10 minutes from downtown Moab.

3/20 - Moab Day

In the morning we went to Canyonlands National Park and did the mesa arch and grand view trails. They were so cool - both literally and figuratively. The relatively cold weather kept the crowds low on both trails. Parking, hiking and taking pictures was very easy. Also, easy was the hike to Mesa Arch, which with minimal effort produced a great view of the canyon. The grand view hike was longer / tougher, but it felt like walking on top of the world. Below is one picture, but the pictures don't really do it justice. 

After the hikes, we enjoyed a great lunch at Mitt's in Moab. We got burgers / milkshakes/ fries. Classic and definitely a recommendation.

That evening we went back to Arches and and picked some of the easier hikes in the Windows Section. The timing worked out well as we briefly got caught in a rain storm that had been threatening all day.

Dinner that night was at Pasta Jay's in downtown Moab. It was excellent and everyone left super happy with an easy day of hiking and great meals.

3/21- Travel Day to Page, Arizona

This was a travel day as we started our drive down to Arizona. It was a really strange drive all morning because it was snowing! That isn't exactly what most people think of when thinking about a "spring break trip Arizona." The snow prevented us from seeing the famous Monument Valley from Forest Gump (and other movies). It's funny in retrospect because whenever our family sees these famous pictures from Monument Valley in travel books / videos we joke about how we could only see 20 feet in front of us due to the snow. 

We arrived in Page, Arizona...a very small city...and checked into our hotel before going out to see Horseshoe Bend. This was a short 20 minute hike until you got to the picture below. Wow! Just amazing. It was much bigger in person than I expected. We stayed for about an hour and took a ton of pictures. 

The rest of the evening was very low key. We went bowling, got dinner at Wal-Mart and took it back to the hotel to eat while we watched a movie. Bowling was actually really fun with the highlight being L getting a spare on her last bowl.

3/22 - Page, Arizona & Grand Canyon

Everyone slept well and we woke up ready for the Upper Antelope Tour. The tour into the canyon was with a friendly tour guide and a bunch of retirement age people....4 of whom were from Columbus. The slot canyon was very photogenic (kind of the main point of it) and made me thinking that without the invention of the camera, Page would lose 95% of their economy. 

Lunch was at a donut shop right next to the tour company. Donuts were a nice treat after our tour and got us ready for another 4 hour drive....this time to the Grand Canyon. 

The Grand Canyon was brutally cold with snow on the ground and a wind that made it seem much colder than the 35 degree temp. Ice checked into the Yavapai Lodge, which had the advantage of being in the park and a short drive to the Grand Canyon Village and the main viewpoint of the Grand Canyon. We bundled up and went to check it out.

The Grand Canyon was as spectacular as advertised even if there were some complaints about the cold. It really did feel different going from mildly cold (but comfortable) in Utah to this kind of cold. We use this as an opportunity to warm up with hot drinks and apps in the famous El Tower hotel. 

3/23 - Grand Canyon & Phoenix

We woke up at 6am, put on all our clothes and hopped in the car for a short drive to the best view of the sunrise. One really cool think (and a favorite for J) was seeing 4 deer calmly sitting in the snow outside our room. The sunrise over the Grand Canyon was awesome and somehow both better and colder than the sunset the night before. Despite the smile below, everyone was just kind of over the cold.

We then left the Grand Canyon to do drive to Phoenix and magically went from the frozen tundra to warm / sunny Phoenix. We headed straight to the Desert Botanical Garden. We walked around all the cacti and other plants from the Sonoran Desert. This was also a free activity thanks to our Franklin Park Conservatory membership.

We drove back to our hotel and headed straight to the "river ranch" waterpark. It was somewhat cool outside (especially with the breeze) but the water was warm and the kids absolutely loved it. 

We were thrilled to be in Phoenix and ready to end the trip well

3/24 - Phoenix Day

Last full day of the trip!We had breakfast the "hole in the wall" place at the hotel. We could take our time since the pool didn't open up till 10am. At the pool we enjoyed the water with L especially enjoying the lazy river. She took about 6 laps over the two hours we were there.

For the afternoon we drove to Scottsdale to see the Reds play the Diamondbacks. The game was fun (perfect weather / multiple good plays) and it was nice meeting my coworker / friend Sarah and her husband / daughter. 

We left after the 7th inning stretch so that we could go back to the hotel and get a few more hours at the pool. The hotel was relatively expensive and the main drawing point was the pool, so we definitely wanted to get our money's worth. 

That night we took Sarah's advice and went to the Mexican place (Aunt

3/25- Flight home!

The best news about our flight home was there was no news. Flights went home on time and without incident. 

52 Things I Enjoyed About 2023

Below is my annual list (started back in 2020) of 52 things I enjoyed about the year. This isn't a ranking or comprehensive (despite the 3k+ words) but rather just a snapshot in time of things that were great about the previous 365 days. For previous years feel free to look back at 2020, 2021 or 2022. Anyway, here are the top things I enjoyed about the year:

Trips

1) Utah / Arizona for Spring Break - my absolute favorite thing about the year was a week spent driving from Salt Lake City through three national parks and ending in Phoenix. Everything worked so perfectly and it truly was one of the best trips of my life. There are almost too many things to list from this trip, but the best thing was the 3 mile hike to Delicate Arch in Arches National Park. 

2) Malphurs Family Trip to North Carolina - we had a great time in probably the best house we've ever had for a larger Malphurs family trip. It was great spending time with everyone's company and enjoying hikes, tubing and plenty of movies / video games. We had one meal that was so excellent that we ended up going back again. (You know a meal is good when you decide to do that on a trip.) 

3) Georgia Guys Trip - This year a group of 3 of us went to Northern Georgia for some hikes and the UGA vs Ole Miss Game. It was fun seeing a new stadium and a huge game...even if the game was a blowout.

4) Cuyahoga National Park - After traveling out west to Utah / Arizona, it seemed strange that we hadn't been to the one National Park here in Ohio. We had a nice hike there (with Rio) and while it wasn't as impressive as Arches / Canyonlands / Grand Canyon....it was still a very fun day. 

5) Planning Yosemite Trip - For 2024 our big trip is going out West again and seeing Lake Tahoe, Yosemite & Los Angeles. The thing I am most excited was working with the park lodging and getting a room at the lodge in Yosemite! This is rare considering the popularity of Yosemite, so I am hopeful that we enjoy the convenience of being right there for 3 full days. 

Family

6) Coaching Team Melon - This is a repeat from the last two years, but it's super fun coaching J's soccer team. Our fall season was much tougher than our spring season - we lost a few of great players and the competition was tougher - but still it's nice getting out there with my youngest.

7) Tyler / Katie's Wedding - M and I had the pleasure of attending a beautiful wedding of one of my old coworkers from Victoria's Secret. Weddings are way less common at our age, so it was extra fun to have an excuse to dress up and celebrate such a big occasion. 

8) 40th birthday at Arch City Tavern -  For my 40th birthday we planned a fun night at Arch City Tavern where we paid for drinks / food and enjoyed the company of ~30 of my friends. My best friend even flew in from Mississippi for the night.

9) Last Christmas in 5605 Warwick Dr - After 50 years my parents made the hard decision to move from my childhood home in Jackson, Mississippi to a retirement home 10 minutes north in Madison. As a family we tried to soak in all the final memories of the only place my kids have known for Christmas. 

10) Date Night with L & J - My kids enjoyed planning a "date night" where L and I dressed up and went to go an Asian restaurant (Lemongrass) and then a fancy dessert right across the street at The Guild House. J and I went to an Italian restaurant (more to come below). Both nights were outstanding! 

11) M Got Promoted! It's very easy to be proud of the work ethic and intelligence of my wonderful wife. She made the decisions last year to leave her previous company and has done so well at her new company that she got a big promotion this year. It's awesome to see her doing so well...and not just because we have a joint checking account.

12) Brother-In-Law Got Promoted to Head of Middle School! In the spirit of another promotion, it was awesome to see my Brother-In-Law get the Head of Middle School role at my old school (St. Andrew's). It's fun to see his career success and even better that it's at a school that has played such a major role in his life (he also attended SA), my sister's life (ditto), my life and my nephews (current students at SA). 

13) Hocking Hills (thanks to Heidi) - M and I had planned a night away at Hocking Hills and unfortunately our babysitting option fell through a few weeks before. Thankfully we have amazing neighbors and one of our closest ones stepped up and said she would love to watch L & J. They all seemed to have such a good time that even when came back the next day the kids wanted to stay at Heidi's house for a little bit longer. 

14) My parents getting set up at St. Catherine's Village - There are some big disadvantages to getting older, but in my limited experience it is better to address that head on. This was a big and difficult decision (I wrote briefly about this in point 7), but overall I think it is the right one and should give everyone in our family peace of mind.

15) Kids cooking - The kids have continued to improve their cooking and it's fun to see and try the treats that they create. 

16) Surprising my nephew in the Atlanta airport - My nephew was traveling to Europe through his school at the same time I was traveling back from work in Atlanta. That gave me a chance to find his flight and sneak up and surprise him. As an added bonus it was nice talking to him and some of his classmates before such a big trip. 

17) Overnight camp! Our kids spent their first 48 hours without either parent as they went on their first overnight camp. They loved it and it looks like these type of camps are likely in the future. 

Sports

18) K Academy - I wrote about this earlier this year, but K Academy is 2 for 2 in being absolutely spectacular. My team wasn't nearly as good as back in 2019, but it was a great group of guys that ended on a high note with an upset win. Also, the best thing about my "sophomore year" was that M, L & J came and saw in person! I absolutely loved having them there. 

19) Duke Over UNC - Twice -  After the disappointing end to the 2022 season (losing at Cameron and then in the Final Four) it was cathartic to see Duke win two very close games against UNC. The first game was a back and forth game at Cameron where Derrick Lively dominated (while barely scoring) and Jeremy Roach scored the key basket at the end. The second game was at the Dean Dome and happened to take place on my 40th birthday. Duke gave me the best present with another close win thanks again to another key late game basket by Jeremy Roach. 

20) Duke wins the ACC Title - Last year's Duke team started off pretty slow and I had some concerns replacing a legend (Coach K) and a bunch of great players (Paolo, Mark Williams, Wendell Moore Jr). The low point was the week after the first win against UNC when they lost 81-59 to Miami (FL). They followed up that with a great game at UVA that was more frustrating because it should have been a win (that overturned foul call at the end against Flip will always been confusing) that took them to only 8-6 in the ACC. It was crazy to see that average ACC team then win 6 consecutive regular season games before winning 3 straight in ACC tournament to win the ACC title. The year was already a success going 2-0 against UNC, but to to win the ACC title (especially with expectations being low) was especially amazing. 

21) Dolphins offense - Through the first 16 games (which really should still be the length of the NFL season) the Dolphins have scored the most points per game in the NFL at 30.1. This includes scoring 70 points against the Broncos in one of the most enjoyable games you can ever watch. It's been so much fun watching Tua, Hill & Mostert over the course of the season. I'm hopeful that this is the year they can finally break the 23 year streak of not winning a playoff game

22)  Dolphins defense / fantasy - the actual Dolphins defense has been mostly good this year, but for 5 games (weeks 11-15) they were absolutely amazing. I knew they had an easy schedule and picked up the Dolphins defense in fantasy, which meant I was doubly excited to see the Dolphins mostly dominate (4-1) against the stretch of terrible teams (Raiders, Commanders, Titans and Jets twice). That streak allowed me to make the semifinals in both fantasy leagues. Unfortunately the luck for the Dolphins and my fantasy ran out at the same time over the past few weeks. Still there isn't much better than when your real life favorite team and you fantasy football team both are doing well.

23) MAC Champion Miami Redhawks Football Team - Miami had one of the best years ever this year with rivalry wins against Cincinnati (for the first time since I was in college) and Ohio University and finishing the year with an upset win against Toledo for the MAC title. I was able to convince L, J and other family members to drive up to Detroit. It was awesome being in person to see a team that won because of defense and special teams. 

24) Twins won a playoff game - I've been a Minnesota Twins fan since I moved there and started following their 2006 team. They were consistently a good team that made the playoffs and then somehow found a way to lose every playoff game. They were swept in 2006, 2009, 2010, 2019, 2020 and lost a one game playoff in 2017. Add up up all together and the Twins lost 15 straight playoff games when I was a fan. (They had lost 3 straight before I was a fan in 2004, so overall the Twins lost 18 straight playoff games). Their futility and bad luck was unmatched. This year they made the playoffs and actually won 3 games. Pablo Lopez pitched two great games and Royce Lewis hit 2 home runs in his first two postseason at-bats. Overall it was exciting watching a young / fun team break a curse that had lasted way too long.

25) Western & Southern Open - I've never been to a professional tennis tournament and one of the better ones (right under the Grand Slam tournaments) is only 1.5 hours away from Columbus. My buddy took me as a nice 40th birthday gift. We had a great time watching amazing tennis and even were able to get down to court level to see one of the matches. 

26) Rushing the Court at Hinkle Fieldhouse - One of my close friends is a big basketball fan and had always wanted to go to Hinkle Fieldhouse to see Buster play. We found a good matchup between Xavier-Butler and were lucky enough to see both an upset home win and the home crowd rush the court. Below is a picture, but it was an awesome sports moment. 

27) 4-0 at Blue Jackets games - The Blue Jackets are not a good hockey team (13 wins / 19 losses / 9 ties), but somehow the Jackets are 4-0 in games I've attended during this season. They beat Calgary 3-1 (10/20), Boston 5-2 (11/27), Ottawa 4-2 (12/1) and St. Louis 5-2 (12/8). It's been an amazing and statistically unlikely run. 

28) Jazz over Celtics - I've been an Utah Jazz fan for 3 decades now and was able to attend my 2nd Jazz home game ever....and take M, L & J to their first home game. It was a back and forth game that came down to the end, but the Jazz pulled it out. I loved being there and was especially excited because L really seemed to be in to the game.

29) Basketball at the JCC - With K Academy in the rearview mirror I joined a basketball league at the local JCC 5 minutes away from my house. While age is still undefeated (I can't move like I used to) it is still great to go out there and play basketball. I don't think it will ever get old hitting a 3 pointer. 

30) Two Ohio State football games - One of the best things about living in Columbus is to have one of the country's largest schools right in our backyard. Ohio State offers a lot of great athletics, but the thing they are most known for is football. This year's team was another good team (though don't ask any OSU fan about them due to how the season ended) and I was able to take J to an early season game against Western Kentucky. This was so much fun and definitely one of the highlights of the year. 

31) Denver Nuggets win the title - In order to make the NBA season more excited, I organized a 4 person bet where we would have a snake draft and pick every NBA team and the winner would be whoever picked the NBA champion. This had the exact impact I was hoping for and even better the team I picked with the 8th pick ended up winning it all! 

Entertainment

32) Lessons in Chemistry - I'm not the first one to write about this book, but this was a great read with compelling characters and a great storyline. I highly recommend.

33) You Could Make This Place Beautiful - A Bexley neighbor wrote this book about going through her divorce. Parts of the book were overwhelming because I would literally be walking through scenes from the book while listening to the book.

34) Shoe Dog  - Despite knowing about Nike and Phil Knight and this book coming recommended by a friend, I didn't have high hopes for Phil Knight's book about the start of Nike. I loved it! I went into worried that it would be a shallow read that featured a lot of off putting self-glorification moments. I was happy to be wrong. Knight showed humility and provided countless examples where he got a lucky break. It helped that the book focused almost entirely on Nike's early days and wasn't about how Nike was run after it became a huge company. 

35) The Man Who Broke Capitalism - Not exactly a fun read, but an informative look at GE's Jack Welch. I never wanted to be a CEO and this book helped reinforce that point. 

36) West By West - Somewhat similar to Shoe Dog, I loved hearing stories from Jerry West's life. He really seemed like an open book with topics and the transparency made the book fascinating. 

37) City Nerd - Youtube algorithm isn't always great / helpful, but one thing that I got into this year was a YouTube channel from this guy named City Nerd. He is a data heavy guy who loves walkable communities, public transit and effective city planning. I love his content and enjoy watching it with my family.

38) Kenny Chesney with L for her 10th birthday - L has enjoyed listening to country music (mainly Kacey Musgraves) and for her birthday I took her out of school and drove up to Ft. Wayne, Indiana to see Kelsea Ballerini and Kenny Chesney. We only knew a little bit about Kelsea Ballerini, but after this concert she jumped up L's interest and is now someone she listens to on a regular basis. Overall this concert was just so much fun - the people were polite, our seats were great and both performers did an excellent job. 

39) Old Dominion with M  - For a random Wednesday in December we were lucky enough to see Old Dominion play in downtown Columbus. They put on a great show and it was fun having a rare weeknight date night.

40) The Wilds - For J's birthday we got her a safari tour through the Columbus Zoo at their Wilds location  1.5 hours east of Columbus. This was specular! The open air bus takes you around to see tons of different animals. The ostrich (pictures below) was especially curious about us. 

41) Zoombezzi Bay (the weekend before Memorial Day) - We went to Zoombezzi Bay twice this year. One time was in the middle of summer - it was warm, which meant ridiculous crowds and lines for popular rides that were easily over an hour. The other time was the weekend before Memorial Day. It was a little bit colder, but L and her friend could go on rides with practically no lines. Much like how our Spring Break trip helped avoid crazy National Parks crowds, there are definitely advantages to zigging when others zag. 

42) The Last of Us - I tend to stay away from most zombie related shows / movies, but probably the best TV series I saw all year was HBO's The Last of Us. The 3rd episode (Long, Long Time)  was particularly outstanding. 

43) The Bear Season 2 - Not just for the Coach K references (even if those didn't hurt) I really liked Season 2 of the Bear in a way that wasn't the case with an ok (not bad / not good) Season 1. My favorite episode (Forks) was focused on Richie at a fancy restaurant and had a few very memorable moments. 

44) Gastropod podcast - Generally my family doesn't care for podcasts on long roadtrips, but one that they have absolutely loved is the gastropod podcast about science / history of food. This was a recommendation by my sister and if you had to listen to one episode I would definitely go with the fascinating history of Nutmeg. 

Misc

45) Lola & Giuseppe's Trattoria - We had been looking for awhile for a great Italian restaurant and finally found what I consider to be the perfect little spot about 15 minutes from our home. J and I went there first and enjoyed the meal so much we had to plan another time for the whole family. We've now been there many times (because of the size, recommendations are highly recommended) and just absolutely love it. 

46) Marty & Matt's Visit to Columbus - For the longest time I've tried to get my friend Marty to come up to Columbus and finally was able to get her to come up for a weekend. We went to Lola's, had a best of Ohio night (Skyline, pierogis, Rooster's) and went to see the Buckeyes beat the Gophers. It was so much fun showing her and her husband around Columbus.

47) Working from home at Carter's - With my job I work with considerate people, do interesting work and have the flexibility from being a permanent remote employee. With L & J this has been a big advantage and something I know that isn't offered to everyone. 

48) Scioto Fest - The Metro Parks system here in Columbus is outstanding. Great parks, trails, etc. One of the best activities this year was "Scioto Fest" at Scioto Audubon Metro Park. They had bands, beer, rock climbing and we could go kayaking on the appropriately named Scioto River. This is definitely something I plan on doing again next year

49) Issue 1 - In a special election in August, Ohio voters rejected a bill that would make amendments to the Ohio Constitution to require 60% of of voters. This is a change from the current system where amendments pass with a majority of voters voting for one side. Considering how democracy in Ohio has already been negatively affected by extreme gerrymandering (this book about the 2010 midterms is outstanding) this would just be another way for Republican legislatures to prevent Ohio citizens from having a true voice. It was a shady (and costly) move to try and sneak this in August and personally I would rather not have spend an hour out of my day driving to the one early voting location.....but in the end Ohio citizens did the right thing and kept their right to change the constitution. 

50) Moshi - One of our favorite places was Moshi Sushi less than a mile away from our house. I looked it up and we went there 7 times in 2023. The food / atmosphere/ waitstaff are all great.

51) Stock market - Going into the year it seemed like everyone was talking about how bad the economy was and how we were due for a recession. And while I know the stock market is only one measure of the economy, it was a great year with the SP500 up 24%! It was a great year to be invested in stocks. 

52) Sunroom - we had a full year with our new sunroom and it's a been a wonderful addition to our house. I love going there after work and enjoying a new spot.